Will a Regular Bulb Work in a Three-Way Lamp?
Yes, but it won’t give you three brightness levels. If the bulb goes dark on one click and comes back on the next, that may be normal.

Yes, you can usually use a regular bulb in a three-way lamp. It should light up, but it won’t give you three brightness levels. It may even go dark on one switch position and come back on the next. That looks like a problem until you know what the switch is doing.
A traditional three-way lamp socket has separate electrical contacts for the different brightness settings. A regular bulb doesn’t have the contacts needed to use all of them. So as you turn the switch, some clicks may light the bulb and another may not. The lamp hasn’t necessarily developed a grudge against you.
Try turning the switch through its full cycle. If the bulb lights on at least one position, the strange on-off pattern may simply be the regular bulb in a three-way socket. If you want low, medium, and high, look for a bulb specifically labeled three-way, and stay within the lamp’s stated wattage limit. A regular bulb won’t become three-way if you click the switch with more conviction.
If the bulb never lights, don’t blame the socket yet. Make sure the lamp is plugged into an outlet that works, then unplug the lamp and let the bulb cool before checking that it’s screwed in properly. A known-working bulb can help you rule out a burned-out one. Those checks don’t prove the socket is healthy; they just clear the easy suspects.
Stop using the lamp if the socket is loose, scorched, buzzing, or getting unusually hot. Don’t reach inside it or try to bend its contacts. At that point, the answer isn’t another enthusiastic turn of the switch.
If it lights on some clicks but not others, you probably don’t need a new lamp. You need a three-way bulb if you actually want three settings. Otherwise, keep the regular bulb and accept that one of the clicks is mostly there for suspense.
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